Why potty training
isn't working (and what to do about it)
A free guide for parents of kids who hold, hide, refuse the toilet, or melt down at the mention of "potty" — from a pediatric OT with 28 years of experience.
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Why Potty Training Isn't Working
(And What Your Child's Nervous System Is Trying to Tell You)
What's inside
A short, practical guide you can read in 10 minutes — and start using today.
The 3 nervous system states
Safe & Social, Fight or Flight, and Shutdown — and how to tell which one you're seeing.
A quick self-check
Eleven simple prompts to help you understand what's actually getting in the way.
What helps next
The first three steps of the Regulation-First™ approach, explained simply.
A note from Kathleen
I'm a pediatric occupational therapist with 28 years of clinical experience, and the creator of Potty Without Pressure™. I built this guide for parents who've tried everything and are starting to wonder if something else is going on — because most of the time, there is. This isn't about doing more. It's about understanding what your child's nervous system needs first.